When you're not feeling like yourself
Depression can look different for everyone.
You may be experiencing:
Persistent sadness, emptiness or low mood
Loss of interest or enjoyment in things you usually value
Feeling exhausted or lacking energy
Difficulty getting motivated or starting everyday tasks
Changes in sleep or appetite
Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
Feeling overwhelmed by responsibilities
Irritability or emotional sensitivity
Feeling disconnected from others
Low self-esteem or feelings of worthlessness
Excessive guilt or self-criticism
Feeling hopeless about the future
Withdrawing from friends, family or activities
Finding work, study, parenting or everyday responsibilities increasingly difficult
You don't need to experience all of these symptoms to benefit from counselling.
And you don't have to wait until things become unbearable before asking for help.
Depression is more than feeling sad
Everyone experiences sadness, disappointment and difficult periods in life.
Depression is different. It can affect your thoughts, emotions, body, relationships and ability to function, sometimes making even simple things feel incredibly difficult.
You might know that you "should" get up, go to work, exercise, see friends or look after yourself — but finding the energy or motivation to do those things can feel impossible.
This isn't about being lazy or not trying hard enough.
Depression can affect the way we think about ourselves, our circumstances and our future. Understanding these patterns can be an important part of recovery.
How depression counselling can help
Therapy provides an opportunity to slow things down and understand what you're experiencing without judgement.
Together, we can explore:
What may be contributing to your depression
Patterns of negative thinking and self-criticism
Loss of motivation and withdrawal
Difficult relationships or life circumstances
Experiences of grief, loss or significant change
Past experiences that may still be affecting you
How depression is affecting your relationships and daily life
Practical ways to gradually reconnect with the things that matter to you
Counselling may help you:
Understand yourself more clearly
Develop greater awareness of your emotions, thoughts, needs and patterns.
Build practical coping strategies
Learn ways to manage difficult emotions and navigate challenging periods.
Reconnect with what matters
Gradually rebuild connection with relationships, activities, values and goals that are meaningful to you.
Develop greater self-compassion
Move away from harsh self-criticism and develop a more understanding relationship with yourself.
Strengthen emotional resilience
Develop skills that can help you navigate future challenges with greater confidence.
Evidence-based depression therapy
There is no single approach that works for everyone.
Your therapy is tailored to your individual needs and may draw on different evidence-based approaches.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
CBT can help you identify patterns between thoughts, emotions and behaviours and develop more helpful ways of responding to difficult situations.
Your experiences, values and goals are at the centre of therapy. A safe and supportive therapeutic relationship can provide space to explore difficult emotions without judgement.
For some people, depression can be connected with trauma, difficult relationships, chronic stress or earlier life experiences. A trauma-informed approach considers these experiences while prioritising safety, choice and emotional wellbeing.
Where depression is associated with distressing or traumatic experiences, EMDR may be incorporated into therapy when clinically appropriate.
EMDR can assist with processing experiences that continue to influence how you feel about yourself, others or the world around you.
Depression, relationships and connection
Depression can sometimes create a cycle of withdrawal.
When you're feeling low, you may have less energy to communicate, socialise or maintain relationships. Withdrawing can then increase feelings of loneliness and disconnection, making depression feel even harder to manage.
Therapy can provide a space to explore these patterns and consider ways to strengthen connection with the people and activities that are important to you.
This may be particularly helpful when depression is associated with:
When depression is connected to past experiences
Sometimes depression has a clear connection to something that has happened.
This might include:
Sometimes, however, depression develops without an obvious cause.
You don't need to know why you're depressed before starting therapy. Part of counselling can be exploring this together.
Depression counselling for adults, adolescents and young people
Depression doesn't always look the same at different stages of life.
For adults, depression may affect work, relationships, parenting, motivation, sleep and everyday functioning.
For adolescents, depression can sometimes appear as irritability, withdrawal, changes in friendships, difficulties at school, loss of interest or changes in behaviour rather than simply appearing as sadness.
For children and younger people, emotional distress may be expressed through behaviour, physical complaints, changes in routines or difficulties regulating emotions.
Therapy is adapted to developmental needs, with parents and caregivers involved where appropriate.
You don't need to have the right words.
You might simply know that something doesn't feel right anymore.
Perhaps you've been functioning on the outside while feeling completely different internally. Perhaps you've been struggling for a long time, or you're finding it increasingly difficult to manage everyday life.
Counselling provides a confidential and supportive space to talk about what's happening and work towards meaningful change at a pace that feels manageable.
At Interpersonal Therapy, the focus is on you as a whole person, rather than simply a diagnosis or a list of symptoms.
Depression Counselling in Caringbah & the Sutherland Shire
Interpersonal Therapy provides depression counselling from Caringbah, supporting clients throughout the Sutherland Shire and surrounding Sydney areas.
Clients may travel from:
Caringbah · Miranda · Cronulla · Gymea · Kirrawee · Sylvania · Jannali · Woolooware · Engadine · Menai · Bangor · Oyster Bay · Como · Hurstville · Kogarah · Penshurst · Mortdale · Sans Souci
Secure Telehealth appointments are also available across Australia.
What happens in your first counselling session?
Your first session is an opportunity to talk about what has been happening and what you would like support with.
We can explore:
How you're feeling and how depression is affecting your everyday life.
Current circumstances, relationships, stressors and past experiences that may be relevant.
What you would like to change
Your goals, priorities and what you would like life to look and feel like.
Together, we'll consider the therapeutic approaches and strategies that may best support you.
You don't need to know exactly what type of therapy you need before making an appointment.
You don't have to face depression alone
When you're depressed, reaching out can sometimes feel like one more difficult thing to do.
But you don't have to have everything worked out before seeking support.
Counselling can provide a place to pause, understand what you're experiencing and begin taking small, meaningful steps forward.
Depression counselling in Caringbah, the Sutherland Shire and online across Australia.
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Phone: 0402 998 830
✉️ interpersonaltherapy.sw@gmail.com