Anxiety can look different for everyone
Anxiety isn't always obvious. Some people experience intense physical symptoms, while others experience anxiety primarily through worry, avoidance or overthinking.
Counselling can support people experiencing:
Generalised anxiety
Persistent and excessive worry about everyday situations, relationships, health, work or the future.
Panic attacks and panic disorder
Sudden episodes of intense fear that can involve physical symptoms such as a racing heart, dizziness, breathlessness or a feeling of losing control.
Social anxiety
Fear of being judged, embarrassed or rejected in social or performance situations.
Phobias
Intense fear or avoidance of a particular object, situation or experience.
Health anxiety
Persistent worry about having or developing a serious illness, even when reassurance has been provided.
Anxiety related to trauma
Anxiety can sometimes develop following distressing or traumatic experiences, particularly when the nervous system continues to respond as though danger is present.
How anxiety counselling can help
Therapy isn't about simply telling yourself to "stop worrying."
Together, we can explore what is driving your anxiety and develop strategies that work for you.
Counselling may help you:
Understand your anxiety and what triggers it
Recognise patterns of worry, avoidance and reassurance seeking
Develop strategies to manage overwhelming emotions
Build greater awareness of your body's stress responses
Learn practical techniques for calming and regulating your nervous system
Challenge unhelpful thought patterns
Develop healthier coping strategies
Increase confidence in situations that previously felt overwhelming
Process experiences that may be contributing to anxiety
Build resilience and a stronger sense of self
The aim is not necessarily to eliminate anxiety completely. Instead, therapy can help you develop a different relationship with anxiety, so that it has less control over your choices and your life.
Evidence-based anxiety therapy
Your therapy is individually tailored rather than following a one-size-fits-all approach.
Depending on your needs and goals, counselling may incorporate approaches including:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
CBT can help identify the connection between thoughts, feelings, physical sensations and behaviours. It can be particularly useful for understanding patterns that maintain anxiety and developing more helpful ways of responding.
Therapy begins with understanding you — your experiences, strengths, values and goals. A supportive therapeutic relationship provides a safe environment to explore difficult emotions without judgement.
For some people, anxiety is connected to past experiences, relationships or trauma. A trauma-informed approach considers how these experiences may have shaped your responses while prioritising safety, choice and emotional regulation.
When anxiety is connected to distressing or traumatic experiences, EMDR therapy may be appropriate. EMDR can help the brain process experiences that continue to trigger emotional or physical responses in the present.
Not everyone experiencing anxiety needs EMDR. Where appropriate, it can be incorporated into a broader therapeutic approach.
Understanding your nervous system
Anxiety isn't simply "in your head."
When we perceive threat, the body's nervous system prepares us to respond. This can lead to changes in heart rate, breathing, muscle tension, attention and digestion.
Sometimes the nervous system can become highly sensitive to perceived threats, leaving you feeling constantly "on alert."
Learning to recognise these responses can be an important part of anxiety therapy.
Rather than viewing your anxiety as something that is "wrong" with you, therapy can help you understand why your mind and body are responding the way they are — and what you can do differently.
see blog article on window of tolerance
A safe space to talk about what's really going on
You don't need to have everything figured out before coming to counselling.
Whether you've been experiencing anxiety for years or you're struggling with something that has recently happened, therapy provides an opportunity to slow things down and make sense of what you're experiencing.
At Interpersonal Therapy, sessions are collaborative, respectful and tailored to your individual circumstances.
There is no judgement and no expectation that you have to explain everything perfectly.
Anxiety counselling for adults, adolescents and children
Anxiety can affect people at any stage of life.
For adults, anxiety may affect relationships, work, parenting, sleep and everyday functioning.
For adolescents, anxiety can present through school avoidance, perfectionism, social difficulties, emotional distress or physical symptoms.
For children, anxiety may appear through changes in behaviour, separation difficulties, sleep problems, fears, physical complaints or difficulties regulating emotions.
Therapy is adapted to the person's developmental stage, with parents and caregivers involved where appropriate.
see children and adolescent services